This is going to PROBABLY be coming from a COMPLETELY different angle than you think... But here goes...
*Why do SOME women make such a huge deal about their dudes watching porn?*
I am not disputing their right to feel a 'certain kind of way' about this, I'm merely asking. I've been told that it gives them unrealistic expectations in the bedroom. Also, that it makes them look at women in a way that women should NOT be seen. Who says?
I, myself, actually enjoy the occasional ( and maybe more often than occasional) adult film. Do I do it for 'gratification'? No. It's NEVER a means to an end. To be honest, my imagination is MUCH MORE vivid than these films. The things that I can conjur up are beautifully tailored to what actually turns me on and much more effective for helping to cure my ills ( overshare? Perhaps...)
I began partaking in this "taboo" passtime when I was 18yrs old. A boyfriend that happened to be quite a few years older than I, used to always have them... not necessarily for us to watch... but for himself. We used to sometimes just watch them w/ some popcorn or while we were having dinner ( strange I know)... but it was almost NEVER a sexual thing... just fuhnie sometimes... and entertaining others. Ever since, I've been facinated... and have built a collection... yes... I am a female w/ a collection of adult films.
Judge me if you may... but I'm being real. I don't see the big deal. These ladies in the film have chosen their path. We aren't aware of their circumstances or what lead them to this profession (deep seeded issues, I'm sure.)... But why are the people who watch, mainly the men, called 'bad'. YES YES... It is a sin. Some people cite bible verse against pornography... I then cite the same about pre-marital sex, living together in sin, smoking, over-eating, etc...
... followed by " all sins are the same in the eyes of God... " So you shoving that ho-ho in your mouth and then goin' home to your b/f and scroggin' his brains out is the same as me watching the TAPE of you two doin' that... lmaoooooooooooooo
Anywhoo...
Porn-- no biggie right?
9 comments:
OK first...WTF with "scroggin"???No word please? Second ya old boyfriend entertained others with porn?....WTF. Third i'ma suuuuure your imagination is something else, especially considering the male counterparts u gotta deal with. :/
Ok now what exactly is a "collection?" Dozens?A hundred?500 plus Gigs of unadulterated sexy time?
Scroggin is my way of saying "f'king" without being tooo crude. You like it...
Nah... he didn't entertain others w/ it... Just me. I liked it and it was MY idea to watch. Remember when he took me to get my first one... it was exhilarating :) We're still friends today.
My imagination is phenomenal... Very dangerous inside the head of Ms. Spence(r)...
And Nah, not 500gigs... lmao maybe like 50-100 porn dvd's... a few mags... not a huge collection... but it's pretty big for a girl...
watchin a porn with your man is hot...
fallin asleep on a friends couch and being awakened to loud moaning sounds and opening your eyes like "what the scrog" and seein a huge penis on the tv screen NOT HOT (over share but who cares)...
i don't have a collection but i dig it! (eww no pun intended)
I agree with everything you've said here. I don't see what the big deal is either and I'm like you - I dont necessarily watch porn to 'get off'- it is entertaining to watch. I like to 'please' my man while he watches a porn- heeeey! (cheesey grin)
idk - some women are just old fashion LAMES lol - i like making my own porn
@ Jae
50-100 dvds.....um yeah that's a big collection for real.It all makes sense now.THAT'S where you it get from. lol
@Jillz
Please assure there will be no random sausage on the tv screen this weekend.Thanks
@Kenya
Interestingly enuff I've never had that.Well at least not during a porn but ya know.....
@T.Steph
Funny I was just talking about that yesterday after seeing my boys DVD camcorder.In a relationship I could see that as something to keep things exciting. But not as same random shit with just anyone. I've seen to many people I know "exposed" online as it is.
Lol-- I don't get ANYTHING from porn... well actually-- they can be educational... and Sometimes it makes me feel very randy-- but never takes me from zero to sixty... I have to be halfway there anyway... lol
As for making my OWN porn... i've never done it... I mean, there maybe a vid or two floating around that I made for a bf or whatever... but-- nothing starring ANYONE else but me...
It would be fun someday... maybe w/ my hubby-- But as Jaycie said, then they could be floating out there in the hands of God knows who...
Sometimes it's just not worth the risk if you don't know where things will end up...
Oh-- and Jillz-- good use of the "scroggage"... lol
ok...1. i don't see anything wrong with porno. but for me it is a means to an end...if i'm bonin on a regular basis then i don't even think about porn, lol. my imagination is very vivid but when it comes to masturbation i don't need to "conjure up no pretty picture", lol. i just need to get to the point.
but uhmmmm deep seated mental issues cuz somebody wants to be a pornstar? and why? maybe they just like FUCKIN in front of people.....
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