Gonna keep it short.
I talked to exie this evening. It felt GREAT!! Like talked on the PHONE. Haven't heard his voice since July. We talked about my life, his life. The new baby on the way. His girlfriend. Our good times, our bad times. It made me feel great. I feel closer to him... as my friend... but more distanced as his lover. which is great.
I miss him.I love him. Glad to have him in my life. Even as just my friend. He is one of my best friends. If not THE best [male] friend. :)
6 comments:
closer...i love how the word has different meanings depending on how you say it. anyway, good friends are so hard to find. the ones that withstand the test of time are worth holding onto.
...wow...
Young woman... I didn't think about that double meaning til I read your entry. Closer -- to move in together in tighter proximity and closer-- finisher.
I love that. It definitely applies here. It's the official finishing of our "romantic" relationship... and bringing me CLOSER (in proximity) to our friendship...
... he's worth keeping...
Definitely wasn't the best b/f ever. but I loved him. I love him. I WAS in love w/ him. he was my FIRST love....
... we'll be friends for the rest of our life.... Of that I'm sure.
and Jaycie-- lmaoo --- I know, sad. But so true.
LMAO @ J...
you know your boundaries...and his true self...so if you can find a positive place for him in your life minus the bs..then good for you.
besides a bad situation doesn't necessarily make a bad person...
@ JILLZ--- Jaycie has been privy (or had the misfortune of hearing) many stories about my bad times w/ exie. lol
You're right, it's about balance and finding that right place and bringing the positive out of it.
I've found that. And I couldn't be happier w/ our relationship( friendship) than I am now) :)
Lipstick-- Thanks!! :)
OMG girl u sound like me.
I talked to my ex boyfriend as of recently [he just had a baby with his new girlfriend]. I was wit him for 3 years...
Its funny how u can still love someone but be okay to move on. I know deep down in his heart he still loves me and if he could have his way he would...but I am happy u talked to your ex. Its okay to be friends.
Too bad my ex boyfriends girlfriend is severely jealous of me so we cant talk anymore. Oh well
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